Char Hearts Mudflats even at her wedding
I spend everyday on mudflats, first the blog and then the forum and now here as well. You may know me from my posts on the forum, you may even know I just got married as Snos did announce it on the mudflats blog.
I came to the blog the same way as so many of you, looking for information on Sarah, what I found besides that was the most wonderful group of friends anyone could ever have.
As a forum and blog administrator I spend my day talking with the forum staff and doing a lot of behind the scenes work that many of you don’t get to see, I occasionally (and sometimes more than that) post and I spend a lot of time walking members and staff through different problems and processes. I also help organize the swaps that I and so many of you love to participate in.
Besides being here all day I spent the winter planning my wedding, the forum staff was super helpful and supportive and I couldn’t have done it with out them.
Only one forum staff member was able to attend the wedding (I will let her remain anonymoose unless she chooses not too), she brought me the most wonderful gift from herself and so many of the others, an album of notes, letters, collages and cards from everyone, which still makes me cry every time I read it. Even Froth (my husband) gets somewhat emotional reading through it.

I heart The Mudflats, AKM, all my friends here, all our members and of course Brian and Brenda.
ETA: Happy Birthday Mudflats, YAY AKM!

May 11th, 2009 at 9:28 am
You look so lovely, Char, as does the anonymous person beside you.
May 11th, 2009 at 9:37 am
Anonymooose moooser outs herself (sort of) as Aeroentropy. And of course, since I’m in the photo, it was the famous Hubster who took the shot. It was a grand occasion, and I was honored to represent the extensive community here who wanted to be there but couldn’t make it. Live long and prosper, Char and Froth!
May 11th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Congrats again, Char!
May you have more happiness than you can imagine and may all your arguments be small and soon forgotten.
May 11th, 2009 at 3:15 pm
What an absolutely beautiful picture! Hats off to Char for making that poster in the midst of preparing for her wedding, and also much gratitude to Aero for representing the many members of Char’s fan club at the big event. There were so many of us who wished we could have been there.
May 11th, 2009 at 3:59 pm
I love that picture! Char and Aero, you both look great. Wish I could have been there.
May 11th, 2009 at 4:00 pm
you all rock!!!!!!!!! i heart all of you.
May 11th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
Congratulations Char (and Froth)!
May your love continue to grow and blossom throughout your life together. I wish you both all the best. My best marriage advice: make sure to find five seconds every day to look into eachothers’ eyes and say how you feel about eachother.
May 11th, 2009 at 9:20 pm
Congratulations! Husband and I just celebrated 9 married years on 5/6. August will be 16 (I think) together. My marriage advice is — no secrets.
May 12th, 2009 at 7:29 am
Congrats! My marriage advice? Keep having sex! It’s the best way to stay close, kiss and make up and feel intimately connected. When you can’t have sex, write notes, do romatic things, buy unexpected (but very special) little gifts. Enjoy your new life!!!!!!!!
May 12th, 2009 at 11:06 am
I love this photo. You both look fabulous (dah-lings!) and Charcoal is a beautiful beautiful bride! The dress is gorgeous (and so is the rest)! Thanks Aero for representing us and putting together the book.
Char, since everyone is giving advice - snuggles, sharing laughter, when times get tough (money, job, family, whatever) you two take a long walk somewhere beautiful, hand in hand, maybe throw in a picnic, and talk talk talk and laugh and joke and dream. We do this regularly, most Sunday mornings out of the city or at least a stroll around town. It has been working for us for years!
All the best, Jamie
May 12th, 2009 at 10:13 pm
OMG! Marry me! (Okay, Arrested Development joke out of the way.) Char, you look absolutely radient, and Aero looks just a little bashful, but also, too, great!
Marriage advice? Make sure all your wrinkles are laugh-lines. They are very attractive on both genders.
May 12th, 2009 at 11:31 pm
Great photo of both of you. Congratulations again, Char!
May 13th, 2009 at 3:31 pm
Good one Jamie, we love to take Sunday morning hikes with the dogs, then stop for breakfast (while the dogs nap) and read the newspaper. We don’t even need to talk a lot for it to be a special time.
A moonlit kayak trip works too!
May 17th, 2009 at 11:30 pm
Congratulations and best wishes for a long, happy life together! You look beautiful- great dress- and it’s wonderful Mudflats was there in spirit to share in the festivities.
May 19th, 2009 at 1:36 am
Char you look so beautiful! As does Aeronymoose! ;0) We were all thinking of you on the big day. So glad to have an ambassador there, and with that lovely book! Hooray!